Friends parents are crazy control freaks help?

started our parents were same. we got caught drinking an puled over by cops. her parents wouldnt let her do ANTYTHING grounded or not. I blame her 4being a dumb nd doing it over again, id b smart about it and stopped getin in trouble. i figure shes just more disciplined, but she cant take it, she gets mad depressed when she finds out sumthin she missed, nd understand she feels her lifes ping her by. She needed to get it into order and now has no missing ignments now her parents are crazy her mom had to get a job- shes never home nd her dads a control freak and forces her to do things or gets mad nd has hurt her 4times her counselor brought the police in now he wont drive her home from school so if she has to stay after for something she walks three hours to get home. This mornin she missed the bus n he left w/o her wen a ride woulda been easy and told her to ride her bike. he locked her out last night in the cold nd grounded her 4 not doin dishes after her three hour walk HELP